The Real Problem of the Christian Life

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Do you agree? Is this the real problem of the Christian life?

 

I’ve been up since 2:00 in the morning. This quote hit me hard upon waking.  It seems to have found me without my searching as I waited for the coffee to brew.  As the thoughts of my day came rushing in.  As I piled books up to read to fill my time and head.

So I stopped for a moment.

I think I agree.  The real problem of the Christian life…it’s biggest challenge is…simply pausing.

Wouldn’t that put an end to so much Christian sin, mindless activity and lack of intentional running after Jesus’ calling on our lives?

To just pause.

Am I headed where God’s Word tells me to head?

Am I thinking upon what God’s Word tells me to think upon? Am I even thinking upon His Word?

Am I responding in love and by His Spirit or in anger, frustration, irritation, selfishness…the flesh?

Am I caught up in my natural fleshly “fussings and frettings” or am I standing back asking the Lord to help and guide me?

Am I caught up in Him?

Pausing this morning…coming in out of the wind.  It’s bitter cold out there.

Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice.  Let your reasonableness be known to everyone. The Lord is at hand;  do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

 Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things. What you have learned and received and heard and seen in me—practice these things, and the God of peace will be with you.” -Philippians 4:4-9

I’d love to know what YOU think the biggest challenge of the Christian life is.  Our challenges change as our life circumstances change.  Please leave a comment, I’d love to connect!

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The True Light Part 2

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“In him, was life, and the life was the light of men.  The light shines in the darkness.”                                                                                                                                  -John 1:4-5

The Light has crossed through

revealing, warm, guiding spark

Darkness cannot squelch

Dear brothers and sisters in Christ,

Do you sense the strength of the darkness? Do not fret.  We may be tempted to do so.  The world seems to be overcome with darkness.  But cling once again to the truths of the bible.  The Word tells us that we are more than conquerers and greater is He in us than He who is in the world.

What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? 32 He who did not spare his own Son but gave him up for us all, how will he not also with him graciously give us all things? 33 Who shall bring any charge against God’s elect? It is God who justifies. 34 Who is to condemn? Christ Jesus is the one who died—more than that, who was raised—who is at the right hand of God, who indeed is interceding for us. 35 Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or danger, or sword? 36 As it is written,

“For your sake we are being killed all the day long;
    we are regarded as sheep to be slaughtered.”

37 No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. 38 For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, 39 nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.” -Romans 8:31-39

By this you know the Spirit of God: every spirit that confesses that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is from God, and every spirit that does not confess Jesus is not from God. This is the spirit of the antichrist, which you heard was coming and now is in the world already. Little children, you are from God and have overcome them, for he who is in you is greater than he who is in the world.They are from the world; therefore they speak from the world, and the world listens to them.” -1 John 4:2-5

Jesus came to reveal, warm, guide and spark life in us.

Jesus is the light and…

“DARKNESS HAS NOT OVERCOME IT.” -John 1:5

He, the light, has actually overcome the darkness.

“I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.” -John 16:33
This overcoming light is active in your life right now.
The light reveals.  He came to reveal Himself to us and to make us His.  He came to make Himself ours.
“The people who walked in darkness have seen a great light; those who dwelt in a land of deep darkness, on them, has light shined.” -Isaiah 9:2
The light warms.  He warms our heart and transforms it.
“I have come into the world as light so that whoever believes in me may not remain in darkness.” -John 12:46
The light guides.  If you feel lost in the crazy shuffle of life, turn once again to Him.
“Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.” -Psalm 119:105
“I am the light of the world, whoever follows me will not walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.” -John 8:12
The light conveys and sparks life.  Plants grow in the sun and we grow as we the light of God’s word shines on our hearts.
“In Him was life, and the life was the light of man. The light shines in the darkness” -John 1:4-5
Dear Lord, illuminate our minds, hearts and spirits with the truth that you are the true light which cannot be overcome by any evil or darkness that we see in the world.  Help us to turn, once again, to your revealing, warming, guiding, life-giving light.  Give us a sense of hope instead of dread.  You have victory over the darkness.  You have rescued us from it’s dominion and brought us into the kingdom of the son you love in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins.

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The True Light Part 1

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Baby Jesus came into the world with purpose, to bring his brightest light into the darkest dark.

“The true light, which enlightens everyone, was coming into the world.” -John 1:9

Some people turn away from his light, but by coming He has brought light to the world.

Look on any news site right now and you will see all kinds of woes.  Yet is this, perhaps, one of our world’s greatest catastrophes? That, “He was in the world, and the world was made through him, yet the world did not know him” (John 1:10).

When Jesus was born and as he carried out His powerful earthly ministry, the world did not recognize Him as its Savior.  “He came to His own, and His own people did not receive Him” (John 1:11).

So does this mean His mission failed?

No.

“The light shines in the darkness and the darkness has not overcome it.” -John 1:5

And the darkness never will overcome it.

His light shined as He hung from the cross at Calvary, as He was laid in the tomb and when He rose again on the third day.

His light shines in the darkness in the midst of world catastrophes and our own personal tragedies, though we may not necessarily readily notice it right away or in this lifetime.

His light shines in our lives if we are in Him even if we don’t always feel like it.

He has delivered us from the domain of darkness and transferred us to the kingdom of his beloved Son, in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins.” -Colossians 1:13-14

We may be tempted to only see the darkness, but we need not stay there consumed by the darkness.  In this world, we will have darkness and troubles, but what does Jesus say?

I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.” -John 16:33

If we are in Christ, we also shine in this world and will not be overcome by the darkness.

Sometimes I feel that we are about to be overcome, but that’s just not true.

As follower of Christ, we can live life boldly in the joy of knowing that no matter what we face, we will not ultimately be overcome.

Lord, Illuminate your Word so that we might grasp during this sweet season of Christmas your great love for us.  Your great love that stooped to bring a bright light into this dark world.  Help us to shine your light by telling others about you, risking our comfort and, if needed, even our lives.  Let us take You to those who do not know You.  Give us the desire to do this.  Let us not merely decorate our trees with lights but let us be the light that shines your light in this dark world.  In the face of every kind of hostility – spiritual darkness, evil, pride, selfishness – let us believe the power that you have to overcome the greatest hostility.  Make yourself known to us more and to others through us and through your Word. Amen.


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Week 3: The Manifestation
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The Greatest Perspective Available to Overcome Temptations

 

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It’s been a lazy summer.  Delightful, easy, carefree and…I don’t want it to end!

 

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With a light schedule and easy days, there has been less temptation toward frustration in the home. I guess that is why I wasn’t prepared for it.

I became frustrated and angered very quickly at a situation with the kids at home yesterday. Afterward, I wondered aloud to God how it happened.  How had I gotten so angry so quickly?  I had gone upstairs and laid across my bed like a little girl who had gone to her room after getting in trouble.  I was humbled.  I felt ashamed.  After five minutes of pouting and putting off the asking of forgiveness, I turned, once again, toward Graceland.  I turned toward the truths about who Jesus is and who I am in Him.

Most likely, if you’re in a season of mothering or fathering, you too struggle with being frustrated and angered in the home.  Oh yes…and outside the home.   Children have a way of humbling us outside the home too don’t they?

I’m tempted to speak harshly and to roll my eyes or walk off haughtily.  I’m tempted to blame the kids or circumstances for my frustration.  Sometimes in life circumstances outside of the home, I’m tempted to give someone the silent treatment.  I’m tempted not to love someone.  I’m tempted to gossip when I’m upset.  I’m tempted to think badly of another person or to assume the worst of another.

Sadly, I admit that I have even given in to those temptations at some point in my life. I don’t always give in to temptation,  but thoughts and impulses toward responding in anger comes to some degree or form daily.  And it’s OK to admit that to you because I’m pretty sure you probably struggle with that too.

I used to think that I was the only one.  Over the years though, I’ve come to develop wonderful close fellowship with other Christians.  I’ve found that they struggle with the very same things I do as often as I do.  I found that they are tempted in the same ways as I am daily and weekly.

We are tempted in so many other areas too, aren’t we?  There is lust, pride, greed, selfishness, etc.

And we all need the same thing.  A new perspective.

Praise God there is a perspective…perhaps the greatest…available to us to overcome temptations.

It’s not something we have to DO…it’s just something we need to remember.  Perhaps the only thing we have to DO, is take time to remember, ponder and meditate on it.

Theologian John Owen said that the greatest perspective available to us against the power of temptation in the world is,

“We need to keep our heart full of a sense of the love of God.  This is the greatest perspective available to us against the power of temptation in the world…Fill your heart with a sense of the love of God in Christ, and apply the eternal design of grace and shed blood to yourselves.  Accept all the privileges of adoption, justification, and acceptance with God.” 

Sometimes I like to get my hands on a book about parenting or marriage or ministry and try to make a list of all that I need to do.  That isn’t necessarily bad, but I do believe that my first go-to should be the above. The above entails thinking upon all of the below:

Apply the eternal design of grace and shed blood to yourself.  Apply the gospel.  Preach the gospel.  Remember the gospel.  Turn to Jesus.

Accept that, if you are in Christ, you have all of the privileges of a son or daughter of the King of Creation.  You can approach the throne of God boldly and ask for all things boldly.

Accept that you stand before this King and Father fully accepted and loved.  In fact, the Father loves you to the same degree that He loves His son.   In John 17:23, Jesus prays that we might recognize that the Father has loved those who belong to Him to what degree?

I in them and you in me, that they may become perfectly one, so that the world may know that you sent me and loved them even as you loved me.”

The Father loves you even as, to the same degree as He loves Jesus.

Accept that your sin has been put on Christ, your elder brother.  And you have been given all that is His.  Martin Luther called it “the Great Transfer”…

Christ not only died the death we deserved to die He also lived the life we should have lived. Christ’s work for us is finished in that it is complete—we can add nothing to it to achieve or attract the Father’s blessing.  . . This means that what Christ possesses belongs to the believing soul, and what the soul possesses belongs to Christ. Thus Christ possesses all good things and holiness; these now belong to the soul.  

And Jesus was given all that was ours.

And you, who were dead in your trespasses and the uncircumcision of your flesh, God made alive together with him, having forgiven us all our trespasses, by canceling the record of debt that stood against us with its legal demands. This he set aside, nailing it to the cross. He disarmed the rulers and authorities and put them to open shame, by triumphing over them in him.” –Colossians 2:13-15

Do you have something that you’re tempted toward each day?  How does the love given to you in Christ change how you feel about it?

Francis Schaeffer wrote this about what the Bible says about the meaning of the finished work of Christ for our present lives:

 “It is the infinite value of the finished work of Christ upon the cross plus nothing, that is the sole basis for the removal of our guilt and bestowal of the same level of worthiness as is possessed by Christ.”  

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It is these truths that feed my soul…a new creation in Christ.  These thoughts build up the bridge that takes me from wasteland thinking to beautiful graceland thinking.  It is this that continues to press into my heart, mind and flesh a desire to love Christ and others more and more  as a response to His goodness to me.  I pray that it does the same for you, dear reader.  I appreciate you and what Christ is doing in you!

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One Thing Sure to Strengthen & Comfort You

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Heavy eyelids open to the early morning light.  My body is asleep but my mind and soul are awake.  For the first time in days, I might have an hour or two alone.  Since leaving for vacation in this old RV, I’ve only found solitude in a bathroom the size of myself.

It’s worth it.  Our longest trip ever in this almost thirty year old RV to venture to my family’s old vacation spot and to take my parents back there.  We want to introduce my kids to the places I walked as a kid.

Vacations are not always vacations for moms though.  Work may be increased when you camp and just a couple of hours of pure solitude in God’s beauty (what I long for most on vacation) might be impossible.  Impossible if you don’t work for it.

So I snap the little alarm clock button down and plug in the coffee pot.  My girl is still snuggled deep down under warm blankets in the cool of the morning and there she will stay for a few more hours. Lord willing, we will both get what we crave most.  I ask my husband, tucked away in the loft above the cab, if he minds.  He mumbles a no.  I take his answer and run with it…even though I am not sure he is fully aware of what he’s giving up.  A beautiful sunrise on the north shore of Minnesota.

I walk on the lake trail through flowering bushes, excited to meet the sunrise and my Lord.  Just like in my younger years, I find a rock perfectly indented for me to recline in.   I sip coffee and I wait for the first gleam of flourescent orange to peak over the Lake Superior.  A rare moment on a Sunday morning for this pastor’s wife. How can I find what I need this Sunday morning on Lake Superior?  What DO I need to keep going these next few days…weeks and months?  What’s the one thing?  The one thing that will soothe, comfort, prepare and strengthen me for the future?  I toss these questions and thoughts to God.

There are a few people scattered across cobblestones waking to this morning light too.  People who camped out on the shore braving the cool lake air and hard rocks just to experience beauty.  I’m joined here with them.  We’re all waiting for God’s splendor.  We wait and I wonder if they are asking questions too.  Maybe they also are looking to be strengthened as they look to return to normal everyday life.

I pick up a smooth round stone to throw into the abyss of Lake Superior.  The largest freshwater lake, by surface area, in the world. I wonder if the others are watching me from behind and if they think, like me, in this humble moment, that my questions are like this little pebble being thrown in such a vast expanse of water.  Skipping stones and throwing rocks was a constant activity just twelve hours ago with my boy but now…now I feel odd doing it alone.  Like I’m throwing my questions right out to God in front of these spectators on the beach.  I hold back from throwing it.

I decide to read a Psalm and I happen upon Psalm 93.

The Lord reigns; he is robed in majesty;
    the Lord is robed; he has put on strength as his belt.
Yes, the world is established; it shall never be moved.
Your throne is established from of old;
    you are from everlasting.

The floods have lifted up, O Lord,
    the floods have lifted up their voice;
    the floods lift up their roaring.
Mightier than the thunders of many waters,
    mightier than the waves of the sea,
    the Lord on high is mighty!

Your decrees are very trustworthy;
    holiness befits your house,
    O Lord, forevermore.

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I sit into my rock chair, one smooth round stone jutting into that spot on my shoulder blade that always wants help.  For a moment there is comfort and the strength of the rock encloses me.  I watch and listen to the waves crash onto the beach.  The waves that have been so mighty and relentless over time.  I’ve seen evidence of it.  The lighthouse built in response to shipwrecks and deaths due to their strength crashing on rocky shoreline.  The relentless waves that long to knock us over as we search for the perfect stones to keep in our pockets.  The cobblestones weathered and polished to smooth roundness.  The soft driftwood aged to perfection in the churning waters.  The rocks the kids sat on yesterday in order to be splashed by the force of water hitting them.   The unending soothing roar I hear from my campsight.  The Lord created this and the Lord is mightier.

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God’s good power.

This one thing gives me comfort and I feel strengthened.  Is it enough for the long haul though? The Lord is majestic, mighty, holy and sovereign.   Will this sustain me through the changes and challenges ahead?

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I see the first glint of powerful glow of the sun coming.  Clouds filling up with a shade of orange.

Come what may, his decrees are trustworthy.  Holiness trumps all. Forever. He is sovereign. He works powerfully in me, in His people and in all situations.

The Lord and His perfect righteousness reigns.  He is robed in majesty.  Strength is His belt.  In this strength, He established the world and all that is in it.  He sustains it, just as He establishes and sustains his throne.  And although the floods lift up their voice and roar against my ears, I remember this.  His throne is established.  He is mightier than anything that goes on around me. His decrees are trustworthy.  Holiness befits His house.

I remember that all that I need is in Him.  HE is what I need.  Jesus and all that He is and all that He provides.  What I do in the coming months matters less than what He can and will do as I turn to Him in dependence.

This shoreline looks rugged and tough but the mighty waves shape it.  May his mighty waves shape even me to look for HIS strength to operate out of, not my own.

What are you needing for everyday life?

Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control…

Any of those?

Jesus has it all and will supply as we turn toward Him in each moment that we need it.

My Gospel Transformation ESV Bible study notes say, “His perfect sovereignty joined with absolute goodness answers every need for his people’s sustenance.”

“And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus”              – Philippians 4:19-20.

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The sun shows itself full over Lake Superior now.  Burning orange fills the sky and reflects off of water and rocks.

Strengthened and emboldened in Christ, I pick up the stone again…this time I throw it.

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The Rescuer and a Rescue Giveway

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It’s the day before VBS, folks.  My mind is occupied by thoughts of crafts.  I will be eyeballs deep in kids, clay and paint this week. Our Vacation Bible School director says it every year.  “It’s the Lord’s Vacation Bible School.  If He wants it to go on, He will provide.”  Every year He does provide for this little country church and this provision has been an example to me in my own personal life to trust for God’s provision.  Our director’s words also remind me that He has ownership of HIS ministries in the church.  He allows us in to participate and cooperate in what He is doing.  He is working through us in amazing ways.

Would you pray for my church’s VBS?  We are a small country church that has up to 50 kids attend VBS each summer.  It’s an amazing experience to watch how God provides help and resources each year.  I think He may even miraculously widen the space between the walls of our church during this time!

My church has been around for over 170 years having an influence on many families and children throughout that time.  Since I’ve been there, it seems the Lord’s outreach for our church has been focused in much on children.  One of our main ministries is a weekly Good News Club throughout the school year held at the local elementary school.  Around 35 kids come together each week IN SCHOOL after school to hear about Jesus.

Our hope is that JESUS will save them from a drowning culture.

And that is a struggle for me as someone involved in these ministries and as a parent.   To constantly remember that JESUS is ultimately the Rescuer…not the program or the club.  He may utilize those things in a child’s life, but ultimately He is the Rescuer.

Do you struggle with that?  Do you sometimes get so caught up in the form of schooling, the church, the youth group, the ministry programs, the parenting book…that you forget who is truly the one who rescues?

Therefore, my beloved, as you have always obeyed, so now, not only as in my presence but much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling, 13 for it is God who works in you, both to will and to work for his good pleasure.” -Philippians 2:12-13

Yes-we must cooperate with the Lord in working out our own salvation and helping others with theirs.  But it is God who works in us all the while.  What  a comfort that is to me as a parent.  I can trust the the Lord works and He works in me and He works in others.

But if Christ is in you, although the body is dead because of sin, the Spirit is life because of righteousness. 11 If the Spirit of him who raised Jesus from the dead dwells in you, he who raised Christ Jesus from the dead will also give life to your mortal bodies through his Spirit who dwells in you.” -Romans 8:10-11

Jesus gives life to our mortal bodies now and He will in the future.  He works as we cooperate.  I need to remember this especially as my children get older.  By no means have I experienced parenting a teenager.  My kids are only 6 and 9.  But I have and do interact with teens through church and my children are starting to be exposed to worldly things much earlier than I ever expected.  I’m beginning to think about the teenage years.

So when I was asked to read and give away a copy of Rescue: Raising Teens in a Drowning Culture, I said, “Yes!”

What I love about this book is that author, Candy Gibbs, gives parents so much hope.  She provides insight from young adults who have recently traveled through the teenage years and are currently in college.  I was blown away by the insight and answers this amazing group of young people offer.  Along with these insights, Candy offers her own thoughts from her perspective and experience as a mother of three including two teenagers, and as the Executive Director of CareNet Pregnancy Centers in Amarillo, Texas.  The scriptures provided in each chapter keep the insights grounded in God’s Word.  I appreciate that the scriptures provided always pointed me back to Christ and reminded me once again that Christ and grace found in Him is at the center of our efforts in parenting.  That it isn’t about my technique, but about His work in our lives.

As Candy says in her book, “Parenting through the teenage years can be a tumultuous time of swimming against society, but it can also be a time of great joy.”

If you are raising a teen, getting closer to raising a teen or working with teens, I highly recommend this book!  Please enter the giveaway below!

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If You Feel Helpless in the Waiting

I am so happy to have my friend, Kasia Allen, guest writing here today.  I had the privilege of getting to know her when she was a young teenager in high school when I first started going to my church.  She has grown up, gone to college and moved on to the big city but she’s still in my heart.  She is also still active in her faith.  What an encouragement it is to know a young woman still walking with her Lord through high school, college and beyond.

I’ve always struggled with waiting.  From the coffee being made in the morning to waiting for the right husband and the ability to have children.  Even now I struggle greatly with some waiting issues.  As I learn more and more that waiting will be a lifelong experience, I also learn more and more how to not waste the waiting. Kasia has learned at a young age to be active while waiting.  What a difference actively waiting has on our lives, the people around us and on our disposition before the Lord.  Be encouraged today as Kasia points us toward what you can do, what you should not do and, most importantly, what the Lord does do in our waiting…

When it’s not important, I like to wait in line. It’s actually quite nice. You aren’t responsible yet for that purchase (is the dress really worth this much? should I buy this much brown licorice? what if I get tired of this piece of furniture?) but I’ve already done the work of choosing it so I accomplished that part of the task. Then I get to just wait in line. I can text or talk to a friend, read, pray, think, so many things.

When it is important, my perspective changes. Instead of being grateful for the blessings and circumstances I have and content with what is out of my control, it’s easy to feel so many other emotions and thoughts.

There can be a hopelessness in waiting: wondering if it will ever happen; if that person will ever change. Hopelessness can lead to anger, melancholy, listlessness. Jealousy that someone else doesn’t have to wait. There can be also fear in waiting: knowing what will happen but knowing it won’t yet. Anger that it has to happen but that you can’t do anything now. Melancholy over not being able to stop it.

There are more ways that waiting is hard. More specific ways that it can be difficult. We have to wait in so many various ways: relationally, spiritually, emotionally, biologically, etc.

But I’ve wondered, if it is foreordained that I wait in this particular circumstance, then what do I do now?

Psalm 37
English Standard Version (ESV)

He Will Not Forsake His Saints
Of David.

David speaks of what to do, of how to think of God because He is God and how to do so when things are hard. He instructs us to trust, delight, and commit ourselves to the Lord.

There are positive actions and behaviors we can act on.

3 Trust in the Lord, and do good;
    dwell in the land and befriend faithfulness.
4 Delight yourself in the Lord,
    and he will give you the desires of your heart.
5 Commit your way to the Lord;
    trust in him, and he will act.

David then commands us to wait upon the Lord with patience, not to fret, and to restrain from evil. We restrain from the sin that can be tempting when things are difficult–we abstain and refrain.

7 Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him;
    fret not yourself over the one who prospers in his way,
    over the man who carries out evil devices!
8 Refrain from anger, and forsake wrath!
    Fret not yourself; it tends only to evil.

But we are not left without encouragement. Our Father foreordained all things to pass.                   He protects us, preserves us, and takes care of our lives–here and throughout eternity.

23 The steps of a man are established by the Lord,
    when he delights in his way;
    so shall you dwell forever.

28 For the Lord loves justice;
    he will not forsake his saints.
They are preserved forever,
    but the children of the wicked shall be cut off.
29 The righteous shall inherit the land
    and dwell upon it forever.  

While waiting can range from being an annoyance to so emotionally painful that it is also physically so, we do have instructions and holy ways we can can wait. We have a kind, loving, and powerful God who knows that we will wait and knows the full complexity and pain it may cause us. While we wait and live out our lives in prayer with with love for others–while we wait–we do have a loving and merciful God who watches over us and will not forsake us.


Kasia Marie Allen is thankful she lives in Maplewood and can walk to a pie shop on the weekend (try the chocolate bourbon pecan!). She thinks flowers are always a brilliant idea, milk should be added to tea, and books are best in hardback but even better if they smell old and dusty.

Image: Woman-Silhouette-Waiting-For-S-5824100 by Denise-Bigstock

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